Was just going over something W has said numerous times and I wanted to get some clarity from the board..
W says "you shouldn't have to MAKE a marriage work"
I think that you do have to make a marriage work, staying in love is work, you have to work at the communication you have to adapt to different circumstances. You need to work on yourselves and work with each other on a constant basis. The M's that are the strongest I see are the ones where they had to work the hardest to make it work.
Now the thing that scares me is the lack of physical attraction she feels towards me, that's sometin that she needs to see in me again and me working o me is the only thing I can do to help that.
Thoughts?
I don't think you will grab physical attraction being seen by her everyday or talking about it.
I think it's going to be harder than you think, being that you are currently labled in a "friend zone".
