You are so much farther along than even 6 months ago. You see that don't you?
I don't feel like it. The last time we had a R conversation I bounced back pretty fast. This time some of my own stuff came up and it has me floundering again. I know I'll work through it, but I'm having a hard time right now.
Originally Posted By: labug
I think your H, like most of the spouses here has his own stuff he's sifting through, trying to make sense of.
Will he figure it out? Who knows?
Is it worth waiting longer to see? Only you know that.
That's the million dollar question. I once thought I wasn't going to wait 4 months, and now here I am 8 months in. I thought there was some progress (in the M - I know I've made my own progress), but there really wasn't in all that time. I'm wondering what more time would do that 8 months hasn't.