Originally Posted By: scaredsilly
she's only 9 but it's not too early, IMO. i think we are programed culturally and genetically to nurture. however, a lot of us do so to an extreme where we sacrifice way too much of ourselves, trying to make someone else happy and trying to be "good" (perfect).

that's how some of us got here (me). we didn't have boundaries and became co-dependent.

i want better for her and her little sister (2 1/2).


Lucky kids to have you, SS, around. Your S too Zig. Sometimes I forget that what we are learning and how we are growing has the potential to impact everyone in our lives. It truly is amazing.


Me(f): 51 W: 41
DP:8 M:3 T:10
"W not happy" 7/11
D final: 8/13