I'm sorry for being a bit slow on the uptake about boundaries and wanted to say thanks for being patient with me and spelling it out.
" If there is anything that has to do with the OM, such as bills, time, etc. you don't accomodate. Don't pay for the lessons, don't babysit while she goes out, etc. You've told her you feel disrespected, now act on it"
I get it now and thanks for explaining it so clearly.
I can't post anymore right now as I'm in school and about to go back to a class of hyperactive 5 yr olds
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13