wow zig thank you!! I will look through it right now!
I love you guys!
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
glad everyone liked it - i felt like i hit the gold mine yesterday when i found it and couldn't wait to share it with all of you
i had a good day - did spend a lot more time on the computer than i had originally planned - oops. need to get more focused with work, and go write my new goals list.
i'm a little sad tonight - s was not good on the phone - and i'm struggling with having to see it and not be able to do anything about it. will think about whether i will talk to h about it or not.
hope you are all well zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
she's only 9 but it's not too early, IMO. i think we are programed culturally and genetically to nurture. however, a lot of us do so to an extreme where we sacrifice way too much of ourselves, trying to make someone else happy and trying to be "good" (perfect).
that's how some of us got here (me). we didn't have boundaries and became co-dependent.
i want better for her and her little sister (2 1/2).
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing
i'm a little sad tonight - s was not good on the phone - and i'm struggling with having to see it and not be able to do anything about it. will think about whether i will talk to h about it or not. ?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
she's only 9 but it's not too early, IMO. i think we are programed culturally and genetically to nurture. however, a lot of us do so to an extreme where we sacrifice way too much of ourselves, trying to make someone else happy and trying to be "good" (perfect).
that's how some of us got here (me). we didn't have boundaries and became co-dependent.
i want better for her and her little sister (2 1/2).
Lucky kids to have you, SS, around. Your S too Zig. Sometimes I forget that what we are learning and how we are growing has the potential to impact everyone in our lives. It truly is amazing.
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13
