You drew the hard line.

How will you afford things?

Do you want the kids to stay in the house with you? What will the logistics of that look like?

Lot's of thinking to do.

There are places on line that you can find out about separation agreements. Have you seen a L?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss