My Story WAW due to Gaming Addiction

[twisted9999]

So another weekend another....i guess set back. Went to see out lawyer about the lawsuit we have with our house we bought...basically the previous owners did not disclose the flood they had in the house due to a leaky pipe and it cause mold in the wall and made my kid go to the hospital 2 times for a total of 10 days. They wanted to talk to us about the impact of the separation.

One of our lawyers is a divorce lawyer too and he gave us a 15 minute lecture about why we should not be devorced. About how the kids are being set up for failure. That divorces cause so much pain and hurt for everyone and some people never recover. About how 75% 2nd marriages end in divorce. About the impact of a second marriage has on the children. He asked who was being the selfish one and my wife said I guess me. She argued about the impact this will have on the kids that it only happens when the parents are fighting about the divorce. He asked her if she would like the see the statistics and how they do not distinguish between a peaceful divorce and a divorce filled with fighting. Also said he has 30 some odd years of experience in this matter and that it happens to almost all divorces with children. My wife started crying and did so for the duration of our meeting. It was apparent that she was angry because when we left she didnt shack his hand nor say goodbye. when we walked out she didnt say anything to me. So I told her goodbye and she turned and said goodbye.

Went to my addiction therapist afterwords and mentioned about a program i found called Retrouvaille and asked her what she thought about it. She said it was a wonderful program and recommended that we go. I had printed the paperwork up and asked if I should present it too her. It kind of needed to be done as soon as possible because the next date after the 9/21/2012 date that was close to us was in Aug 2013. I had also called and they said they were filling up fast and if we wanted to go we needed to do so immediately.

Called the wife up told her about the program and what it was asked if I could drop the paperwork off. She said that would be fine. I put it in the mailbox and left. Called her this morning about when and where she was dropping off the kids and to also see if she read through the paperwork and what she thought. No answer. Waited 15 min just in case she was late for leaving for work and didnt get a chance to answer the phone. Nothing. Sent her a text saying "Please call me when you get a chance". As of right now nothing. She never does not answer or call back right away when I call.

I have to see her later today when she drops the kids off so we will see what happens then. I am not trying to pressure her to go. I told her it is up to her when I talked to her yesterday but I also need to know by the end of the day before it is too late.