Ro, I think this is just another step in the process. These points come along and we are given the opportunity to peel back another layer (by the time this is over I hope I've peeled off enough to be the 120# I've always wanted to be!)

You are so much farther along than even 6 months ago. You see that don't you?

I think your H, like most of the spouses here has his own stuff he's sifting through, trying to make sense of.

Will he figure it out? Who knows?

Is it worth waiting longer to see?

Only you know that.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss