Fig: Sorry I didn't reply till now - was mostly offline due to being out of town.

Most of it is not knowing enough people here. And as Gineen points out - the reliability.

The agency I use has his care nailed. THey are fabulous. Their reliability - the best ever. But the supervisor [censored]! she is like Hitler. She is like this with everyone.

She is a 30something pompous lesbian. And trust me - I'm no homophobic in any sense of the word. I mention her orientation because it really seems that she is so defensive about her lifestyle that she extends that defensive/bossy/cockiness to all her dealings. And trust me - she gouges and bosses EVERYONE! From the government liaisons to the medical supply vendors to the physiotherapists, OT & dieticians - EVERYONE complains about her. She is a BEEYOTCH of the worst kind.

So - the eternal question. Do I do what is best for Ryan's health care or for the emotional wellbeing of all of us (him included)?

This morning she emailed me back - furious that I had actually SPOKEN to one of the workers about the Disney Trip after she had told me the worker was unavailable to me. Ummm - all the workers had been talking to me about it for some time.

I AM FLIPPING! This is not good for my health.

Anyone want to go to Disney World???

Barb