she's only 9 but it's not too early, IMO. i think we are programed culturally and genetically to nurture. however, a lot of us do so to an extreme where we sacrifice way too much of ourselves, trying to make someone else happy and trying to be "good" (perfect).
that's how some of us got here (me). we didn't have boundaries and became co-dependent.
i want better for her and her little sister (2 1/2).
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing