wow brit..floppy hair? i remember lmao at that. anyway. im glad im "one of the cool kids". lol

so im gonna weigh in on the dating thing once again. on the dating story thread. not gonna hijack cuz im gonna start a sh1tstorm. anyway. i like the squeege thing. it makes sense. it needs to happen i think. each person has their own timeline.

seeing how blind i was makes me laugh. i totally relate with you. i too ignored stuff because the idea of love was more important. i think she did the same. i wasnt the best H, but thankfully for this sitch i know i will be. sometimes i feel guilty when i talk to women. all the stuff i learned here and in books does work. you know, like paying attention when someone is talking to you. lol

brit, keep doin your thing. advice is great and appreciated. ultimately, you have to decide for you. thats where the freedom is. being selfish isnt always bad. i think when you can love yourself, you in turn can love people that much more. kinda like the circle of life in the movie the Lion King. maybe the circle of love? idk.. im rambling.

i'll make it a point to post as often as i can. i too would like to stay in touch. i got my rockstar shades on. you get yours yet?

Dakota


m:31 W:32
M:8 T:11
S:10
D:5
Bomb:1/07/12
Separated:4/23/12
Divorced: 12/12/12