Still hangin in there

[BeingMe]

It takes time, Rachael ... lots of time if you're going to stand for your M. Sometimes that time is lost, and you will still have to ask him to leave, and get a divorce. Weniki is one who can tell you about that. I stood for 7 years, and have just asked my H to leave. I wasn't angry, just finished. Maybe when you get to that point, it'll be easier. Or, perhaps he'll come back to the marriage such as WCW's husband. She also waited for years and years. You just don't know. Gotta go by your gut. In the meantime, try and detach ... I know how hard that is. I would succeed for a few months, and then a day would come when I would just cry for the pain of wanting him, mostly during the cancer. Not doing that anymore.

I also used to sit in my car somewhere and just pray. I like the ideas given above by TS2 for GAL.