I have a counsler I really like that I must of spoke to for 10 hours before I did DB counseling. They really got my mind on the right track. I am ashamed to say that the same things they put in front of me are things I try and teach my children. Life is full of choices and consequences.
Additionally, and this is what I have had to realize. If she does not want to do it it likely will not work.
It is also possible to have a reconciliation with out MC so the risks, to me at least, out weigh the benefits of pushing it.
