Well, I left early to work and when H arrived home he asked my mother where I was and that I agreed for a ride to work and why I left early. H called me 3 times and I didnt answer the cellphone but at the 4th time I did and the interrogation began:
H: hey, Ive been calling you, where are you?
Me: The office called because something happened
H: ok...by the way my car insurance called and I need you to lend me your credit card to pay for it (HELLS NO!)
Me: I'm sorry but I'm not gonna lend you my credit card for the following reason that I don't trust you. I don't trust you because you didnt go to the doctor last Saturday, I don't trust you because you came late the other night, I don't trust you because you are still talking to her. Until I see you are willing to work on us, I'm not gonna trust you. all I want from you is to be honest with me.
H:You know what, don't worry, I'll take care of my problems. I'm not with her anymore. I don't know, but I don't wanna feel like I'm in prison, I wanna feel like I'm home. About the other night that I came home late, I told you I had too many beers.
Me: I don't want you to feel like you are in a prison cell. I'm just asking you to be honest with me, to stop all communication with her.A marriage is between 2 persons not 3. SHe has a big drug problem and I don't want yob to waste your energy on that woman, where you should be focusing on me and your child.
H: Ok, don't worry I'm not involved with her anymore, I already explained it to you.
Me: I'm just asking you to commit in our marriage and be honest
H:I know, but I don't wanna see her die, I promise nothing is happening between her and I.
Me: She made a choice and no matter how many times you tell her to stop using drugs, she will continue using them.Because she will always think of her next fix, drugs are way more important to her than anything else. She's not your responsibility .
