First of all, what are your goals? The short term ones.
For example, if your GOAL is to have your W go out with you for coffee, one on one, what are you going to do to achieve it?
Eventually you can make your goal for her to wear her rings.
In terms of boundaries, what are the things that you can't tolerate? State them. Then you don't encourage that behavior. Say you won't XXXX if your W continues to go out with OM. Like if you're paying for the class, tell her you won't be doing it any longer with your family's money. She can do whatever she wants, but you are not going to let it be a part of your life.
Things like that are enforcable boundaries. You don't need to threaten D.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
