Sounds like you handled that conversation as well as you could. My W and I have had similar conversations since we decided to R, albeit about different topics. Sometimes, we just agree to disagree. It's WAY more important to me to be happy... rather than right. And it seems that my W has learned that lesson as well.
Take care. I look forward to reading more about your progress.
It’s amazing how different we come out of the other end of this hell.
You are right. It’s better to be happy.
I remember right after my W and I reconciled, we were having a convo. While her and I were separated, I became really close friends with one of her cousins and her cousin’s H. Anyhow, my W didn’t appreciate our friendship and she said something about it, but she was indirect. I replied to her, this is what you said, and this is what my interpretation is.
She was trying to say that she didn’t like the fact that I had become close with them without saying it. The point is, she stopped, and realized how unclear she had just communicated to me. That’s the same way she would communicate her displeasure before the bomb. In her mind, she thought that she was clear about her unhappiness.
Now I’m just rambling. lol
Originally Posted By: Denver_2010
Oh! I meant to mention another fantastic marriage retreat that I would really recommend. It's called "A weekend to Remember" put on by a group called "family life" (I believe). My W and I did it in March, before we had gotten to R, and it was really, really good. We plan on going again in the near future.
I’ll have to keep that one in mind. Thanks again.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
