good for you Dawn - and it it took a psychic - i'm all for it.
I'm really open to that sort of thing - just to let you know.
things like that happen for a reason, i really believe - and if you don't GO with what the universe is handing you on a plate right now - well then it will give you another bashing down the line to do so.
right now it's handing you the chance to find the true you, that's not all entangled with your h.
and guess what the real gift is if you go with it? you will become so powerful in your own energy and independent growth that it could possibly influence your h to come out of his depression.
as for noticing your patterns - YAY YAY YAY!!!
that's the first step - and you and i are just going to take off from there.
word of warning - i started seeing the patterns - the more obvious ones - almost a year ago - and guess what - i'm STILL finding patterns that need to change.
first the most obvious ones glare out at you and then over time the more subtle ones.
what i am beginning to see really clearly now, dawn, is that every step i take toward being a stronger me, coincides with a pattern breaking. it all comes in degrees - slowly slowly
so take a deep breathe and get ready for a wonderful journey - you are going to be so delighted with what you discover about your self
hugs to you Sweet Dawn - and kudos for being so courageous
Zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"