Wendy, I'm sorry you have do find out about your divorce the way you did. I wonder if your xh knows yet?
As for the restraining order, I wouldn't worry too much because it was not granted. However, be prepared if someone should ask you when you applying for positions.
I hope your home sells very quickly so that you can be out from under his presence. Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
