I bet OW told her H a pack of lies to scare him into applying for that restraining order. You know how she is - master manipulator all the way.
Well - I know it doesn't FEEL this way, but - congratulations on being divorced! Unwanted, but now you are free to build a life on YOUR terms. And I've got the feeling you have the tools now to make that life a fun and adventurous one.
I, too, hope the house sells soon so that you can get out of there - ugh, can't imagine being stuck living with my ex. Any nibbles? If not, does the realtor have any suggestions?
Once you get one of those out of your life, why on earth would you ever do it again?