I bet OW told her H a pack of lies to scare him into applying for that restraining order. You know how she is - master manipulator all the way.
Well - I know it doesn't FEEL this way, but - congratulations on being divorced! Unwanted, but now you are free to build a life on YOUR terms. And I've got the feeling you have the tools now to make that life a fun and adventurous one.
I, too, hope the house sells soon so that you can get out of there - ugh, can't imagine being stuck living with my ex. Any nibbles? If not, does the realtor have any suggestions?