Denver, Thanks so much for the post. I tend to agree with you, but wanted another perspective on if I should think about changing gears. I do have some concerns over the lack of 'anything' good, bad or indifferent but i'll just continue on this path for now. I really don't think that 4 months is all that long, sure it seems like an eternity to me now but in the grand scheme of things I can see the bigger picture.
I've read up some on MLC, and see some similarities to whats going on with her, i'll check into it more. I've said all along that I think its either MLC or something hormonal. My wife is 41 and my FIL told me that my MIL went into early menopause at 42 and they barely made it through. Unfortunately for me, I can tell you that I was a real jerk alot of times in my marriage so its pretty hard now to mention to her that maybe she should have her hormones checked without looking like im trying to excuse my behavior by blaming her. Actually there's no way i'd ever mention that to her, but hopefully someone else does, or she come's to it herself.
I also agree with you that even if she files, at least for now I wouldnt be done. I dont know when i'll come to the point that I am truly finished, but for now im simply not done with wanting my life to include her. Im all about dual goals.
