Sorry, I forgot to say that our lists are a good way of keeping us from ignoring the warning signs that our hearts don't want to read.
I totally agree. I am no longer using those emotions/sparks/chemistry/hormones/instant attraction cues to tell me I've met "the one". All that is artificial.
I made my list, I checked it twice, and posted it once. Thank you SS for inspiring us all to say here's what we want!