I was inspired by ScaredSilly writing out her list of what she wants/values in a partner. Her H has asked her what he should do to make it work.
I dug back through my journal for my lists. My IC had advised me to make a list and she said subconsciously I would begin finding those qualities in people.
First I was overwhelmed with compassion for myself when reading some of those old journal entries. I even said in one days after the split "I feel so lost" I am so happy that I found all those tools here and in books that helped me find myself. And my list is laughable at times "strong jaw, floppy hair" LMAO
Here's the edited list: I want them to value travel and expeirences over material things because those can never be taken away. Has a positive outlook on life is open minded, liberal, tolerant, charitable, loyal, faithful, funny, open not aloof, loving, caring, touchy feely, romantic, creative, imaginative, outgoing and talkative in social situations, enjoys a drink, likes to have a good time, dances (doesn't have to be any good but doesn't take himself too seriously), Loves to explore new places, is active, wants kids, polite/well mannered, hard working, has initiative
