Yes, those conversations are still so painful.. but I would guess that you will bounce back quicker now than before.
and you don't need to decide anything this moment. you can wait for the feelings to ebb to see where you are at..
it does sound like he must forgive himself if he can..
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I'm not sure how well I'm bouncing back. I slept like 2 hours last night and feel sick to my stomach. I know I need to sit with everything for at least a couple of days.
Yes, see my post to Nhmom about him forgiving himself. Maybe he is waiting on some kind of affirmation from me? I'm just not sure what that would be.
