I too had the same feelings...I was getting a little nervous because I was GALing and feeling so good that maybe I did not want my W back...then dropped of my kids saw her my heart broke again...she looked so good. I hope this method works..I can tell my W wants to miss me but after 1 month...not so much I am afraid. I have to go dark...got to get busy when you feel the pain, clean house, exercise etc.....