Thriving not Surviving

[needgrace]

i think bug is right.. and he also never takes responsibility for anything, never truly grows up? it sounded like what an adolescent would write. i hope that does not sound harsh brit. i think i do the same sometimes

i think it is a defense, prevents us from taking a risk, there is an element of safety and distance involved in that stance in the world. but it also prevents us from knowing and going after that which we truly want.

it is probably part too of the flip positive qualities that attracted you.

did it bother you much that he did this?