Things have been pretty good, but hit a bump yesterday. After dinner we were talking a little about the retrouvaille session we went to Sat and the discussion bled into a bunch of other things, like about how marriages have become disposable, how people don't address their own issues, etc etc.
Well, after dinner we were sitting in bed and the conversation turned to our R. I said something along the lines of my love for W had always been constant, and she commented that I just didn't always show it, which is a fair statement. When that got flipped around, I asked her, what did she think she had showed me over the last 5-6 years and she got pissed. I was very calm, and I told her I didn't really want an answer, I just wanted her to think about how she had felt versus what she thought she showed me. At that point it became clear I hit a nerve so I asked her if she wanted to stop talking about it and she said yes. She pretty much hasn't talked to me since.
I thought about bringing it up this AM and apologizing if she thought I was trying to make her feel bad, because I really wasn't, but I just left it alone.
