I was back reading MLC posts from something cadet sent. Very helpful. Again, the advice is to detach. I believe thats my problem right now. I am letting fear rule me. If my husband did leave it would devastated my s18. He has issues with his dad as it is and this might make him go over the edge. My h seems to be wrapped up in OW. I seem to be too concerned with what H is doing.
Yesterday H left the house on foot for about 10 min or so just before my dad was to come over for dinner. It's the behavior he had when he was texting OW. I made a comment about where he was and he got mad. Then a few min later I saw him on his phone outside by our window so I was able to see him texting on skype. He told me a few months ago that he only tryed it because our computer was out for a few days, but he wasn't using it. Lies.
My H comes home late many nights. I am always there. Doing a 180 would be to not be there. Any suggestions where to go? Don't have many friends now. The ones I do have are tired and want to go to bed early. They work.
