Hi Amelie - I haven't followed your sitch but just read this post and the last page on your last thread.. it maybe a bit presumptous of me to just pop in and give my opinion - i hope you don't mind
i think you do know yourself that this is requiring a different strategy on your part.
I don't think your mother is right -giving him more time is only going to give him the message that he can do whatever.
the cell phone issue and not going to the doc and the going to friends and the way he explained it all - big red flags.
How are you in all of this? How strong do you really feel? It's only from a place of inner strength that you can truly set boundaries that are healthy for you. The boundary you may have to think about setting now, may not be the most appealing, but it may be the only way that you can avoid all of this happening all over again
take the time to focus on yourself - are you still gal'ing well?
sounds like a major pulling back on your part may be in order right now.
just my 2 cents zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
