ces is right, only we know when we're done and what that looks like.
Here's where I am: I'm pretty happy with myself, I no longer feel like I MUST SAVE MY MARRIAGE! I'd like for my H to reconsider his position but if he doesn't, there's a big, wide world out there. So right now, I'm friendly, joking, cheerful but as I said in a previous post on my thread-time's a wastin'.
Any parallels with where you are? I think the biggest problem for me is getting rid of the I shoulds and just living my life.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
