This morning I had a talk with H about things that have been bothering me since he came back home....
Me: I need to speak to you...
H: ok, what's up
Me: Well there are things that have been bothering me since you came back home. The first one is you taking the cellphone into the bathroom, why? Are you texting her?
H: No, I play angry birds and I watch the news from there! Don't worry I'm not texting her, yesterday she texted me because she wanted to know how I was....
Me: Listen, that's another thing, you are still keeping in touch with her. If you want my trust back and really commit on our marriage you gotta stop all contact with her.
H: There's nothing going on between her and I. I'm not stupid to get back with her, she's a manipulative junkie.
Me: I'm not worried about her, I'm worried about you falling back into that lifestyle...I want you to be more open with me like we used to be.
H: I'm open with you, another man would've never told you what Ive been telling you.
After the conversation he kissed me goodbye and told me he was going to give me a ride to work later. My mother tells me to give it time and be more patient that he's going to eventually stop all contact with the OW.
