Sometimes I don't understand why my H got it so easy... He has someone that in his mind is perfect for him in every way.
I had that feeling! And I remember feeling jealous not of him but that he had a relationship and I didn't.
But....the time spent alone, learning about ourselves and about the M will pay off exponentially. And I know my STBXH doesn't feel good deep down in having had help in the transition. not standing on his own two feet etc. And she's insecure and jealous because it began so soon after our S. Your H's relationship will have the same insecurities because they were both M when they met.
It is tough and I can't imagine having little ones too. Glad you're getting a break. I love the ski pass idea. Who knows you could make friends there and then make plans to meet up. I have been making plans with girls more often and that I barely know a lot more. I have more of a why not attitude and it's fun!
