Hey CB, it looks like we're always on different sides or things. smile While I understand what you are saying, it just doesn't sound like DB to me. It's more of the Dobson approach, which I'm sure works in many cases but "tough love" can easily blow up in your face and you have to be ready to accept that as a possibility.

Although I'm not totally eliminating it as an option, I think that people all have a different breaking point, when they know they put in everything they've got and they are ready to "drop the rope". It's always a personal choice and no one should be made to feel like they are a doormat for sticking with the techniques prescribed by MWD.

Still, it's always good to hear that there are different options available. Thanks.


Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then