Still together but trying to save this

[PeteWyo]

Ok not sure what happened to my last post, I posted a week or so ago and it never ended up here. My wife and I are both 31. The OM was both of our friends. He was engaged to my wife's friend and we were actually supposed to go to their wedding in October. I won't air out my issues with that here because he is a liar and a manipulator but my wife is blind to that right now. I have mentally prepared myself for the inevitable at this point. Actually my biggest regret is that I can't save her from this guy that will hurt her at some point. I am still trying to protect her even though I know she is checked out. Honestly I am done at this point, I am just worried about her. She probably thinks she can't come back because I wouldn't forgive her. But I do. I don't forgive him yet, but I will someday. I will be fine but she may not and I hate that I won't be around to take care of her. So be it, this is her decision...