Bill you always need tactics for a plan.... Else your having tea.


Filing shows your wife that your are done. Done with being an option.


It shows that you understand your vows. Its a hard thought.

So 10 months in.... Do you think you need to say it again. Or do you think that you need to just work through your thoughts and act upon your decisions?

There is really nothing to confuse. Wife cheating + 10 months = file...

Nothing to explain. If she asks that is what you say! So instead of talking about it. Just work and go to school and then one day you are confident enough and you go and file.

How often besides once do you need to explain the dis-respect?


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