It can't be a threat, it has to be an action you are willing to follow through on. Otherwise it's all just words. This is where the rubber meets the road if this is the route you are taking.
I'm not saying what you should do just don't paint yourself into a corner you can't get out of or don't get into a situations that isn't tolerable for you.
That's the difficult choice.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
Tori and Labug, I do realize that whatever I say as a consequence, that I will have to follow through with otherwise it is an empty threat. Like so many times it has been said, Action speaks louder than words.
To simply add to this confusion, I paid her a compliment earlier for how nice and clean the house looked. She responds, you know I feel good. I think I was depressed. Internally, I'm thinking, well of course you feel good, you just had a little party at our house with some of your friends and OM. Duh. Is be happy too. I'm saying this without anger or sarcasm. Just the truth, as I remember the highs of first dating The more aggravating thing she said shortly thereafter, "I'm not saying the I feel good to be rude, because I know you're not happy.". And then she told me how I was feeling unhappy several more times. I have been able to truly be happy around her, by focusing in the kiddos and what not.
At this point, I'm going to sleep on everything and bring it up in the next few days, because I want to make sure I have the emotional and physical strength to do have this conversation. I'm wiped out.
