Can Turtles climb?

[scaredsilly]

thank you, zig! i'm doing so much better than i was in the past. i don't know how it happened? i guess i just had enough of someone thinking and saying i was not good enough.

after 16 years of giving and sacrificing, i finally had enough.

i really think writing down all that i did for him, his family, and his kids and all he and his daughter (and some of his family) did TO me, helped tremedously!

i had long ago appologized to him and his daughter for what i was responsible. most of it was how i reacted to resentment.

but i have never called them on what they did to me. i didn't want to lay out my own grievances and just look like i was trying to even up the score. i truly wanted to forgive them without that.

but actually writing it all down (it has taken some time and thought) has helped me to see that i am a good woman and he would be a fool to leave me (not that i'm tooting my own horn).

i really recommend it for everyone on here. it gives back self confidence and worth when someone else may be trying to tear it down. it opened my eyes and helped me to know that i would be able to have another "love" in my future because i'm worth it.

YOU ARE TOO, ZIG!!!