Thanks cadet..I have been detaching as much as possible but it is difficult as we have two kids to tend with. One is 6 and the other is 11...they miss me a lot and are always trying to get me over to her place...I don't want to punish them but I do want to take space from her. The other part is that there is this om and I don't know if he is really the om; I have asked her and she says he is just a friend. I told her she could tell me the truth and she still says he is just a friend. Do I push this issue more or does it look like I am controlling? I just want to know the truth...I have become a snoop detective spying on her and what not and I hate that...I know it is bad I just want to know the truth.
