Tori, as always thank you or your input. I have arranged a consult with a L just to know my rights, the process, and the law itself in my state.

Labug, I get what your saying now. We never drew out any consequences for breaking what I called a boundary. Main 3 options I can think of for a consequence would be: call the cops (yeah, that's not practical or effective for a variety of reasons), I could threaten her with the D that she wants, or actually tell her she will have to leave our home and find housing elsewhere (that'
s probably what I will issue).
Thoughts?