It sounds as if you have thought this out, you have a plan, you are adjusting your expectations, and you have reasons for what you are doing. Not much else to do, except stick by it and then later on, monitor for results.
But keep in mind WHY you are doing these things. You do have reasons and Your reasons are good
but they can change. You are allowed that.
No one is saying you MUST issue an ultimatum or soon.
(And your sitch IS a tad unique from a legal perspective. You'd lose your d and that is no small factor.)
I support your plan, as long as you don't torture yourself with the artificial time lines and expectations. That's where you've been backsliding and I'd focus on that.
Lose the expectations. Doesn't mean you lose your self respect.
GAL that involves meeting other people, more. I keep saying it b/c you sound alone a lot. Maybe I'm wrong there. But GAL is the main thing you can do that will give you some mystery AND help your PMA, along with daughter time.
Consider doing a whole lot more of daddy/daughter stuff that does not involve your w.
Seriously, I'd build a r with your d that is way more separate from your w's. Without hopes that your w will do something to fix it.
Do it Just FOR your d and you. So no matter the outcome, you maintain a separate and independent r with your d that does not depend on your w at all. Make sense?
It'll take time for your w to figure things out, regardless of what the outcome is.
And that gives you the gift of more time with your d. And more time to enact your post by Denver/truegrit...which is a powerful one indeed.
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