My W has said she'll keep things as they are until the new year and also still wants to go on the family holiday to mexico next august that we had booked about 6 months ago , (which weve still got to pay for ), but come january she wants a trial separation with no dates between ourselves and minimal contact . We have 2 girls so there as to be some contact. She said it doesnt mean she will go off with any tom,dick or harry , but if someone does ask her out and she wants to she will go .She also said that if anyone were to catch my eye i should go for it . I love my wife and children to bits and id never do anything like that. She says shes just got to search her soul and see if she is happier on her own with the children . The thing is , with my job im often away during the week (back at weekends), not every week but at least 2 a month up and down the country , so shes gotten used to being just her and our 2 Ds . Therefore a separation without us seing each other wouldnt seem that out of the ordinary for her anyway , apart from weekends . and i worry about that as it wouldnt quite have the shock factor as if i was home every night. On the other hand though , i think if i were to move out for a bit it would be a lot easier to try and move on with My life, even though i know its going to be hell on earth for a while .
I really wouldnt wish this heartache on anyone , its the pitts .
