Did you set a boundary or state an ultimatum? (re, your post about the OM meeting the kids.)

There's nothing you can do to stop that. So now what do you want to do? How would you address it that would make it better?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss