Definitely make the list about your ideal man with no other person in mind. This is a list that reflects what you want not what H wasn't. That's another thing my IC told me.
;-)
Craving red velvet cake and champagne!!


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017