Definitely make the list about your ideal man with no other person in mind. This is a list that reflects what you want not what H wasn't. That's another thing my IC told me. ;-) Craving red velvet cake and champagne!!
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017