zig, I focused so much on the toilet brush that I looked past the info your friend gave you.

I too had to have a talk with family and friends about giving me 2nd hand info. I made it very clear that it served no purpose in helping me take care of myself so that I can take care of my kids. Why did I need to know that he was spending the night at OWs place or that he was taking our kids over there? Seriously! This was Hs n my business not everyone else's.

Take care of Zig and everything else will fall into place.
HEY! Didn't you just write that to me! LOL!
hugs!!!


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017