Thank you Zig! I will definitely reread your post and take a lot of time to reflect on your words.
I started doing the following to let out my anger in positive ways, gardening (pulling weeds), picking up dog poop (we have a mastiff so that stuff is massive!), walking, journaling, praying, meditating, reading.
I need to continue in order to not lose the momentum.

Thank you Brooke! I love that you have two little ones and know the stress of trying to attend to both at the same time. I will definitely consider asking my friend's (neighbor's) 13yo daughter to come by once in a while for $5/hr. She wants to teach her daughter responsibility and this may help ;-)

Thank you soo much RLA!! I looked it up! Echo Park is not far from me at all! I completely agree with their philosophy!

Have a great Sunday everyone!


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017