If you want to have relations with your H, I say go for it. However, If it makes you feel like a "booty call"...well then thats not doing much for the self respect eh?
Some might say that it could bring you closer. That positive interaction is a good thing.
Some might say that he could be living a little fantasy. Enjoying the variety. And that there is something to be said for wanting what one can't have.
Again, as long as you are enjoying it, and you don't feel bad afterward, no harm done. That's my 2 cents anyway.
A couple questions I was hoping you would answer from the WAW perspective.
What kept you from filing for D? When you were "done" and you left, did you consider yourself D already? That the rest was just paper work and H could initiate that if he wanted, but you didn't want to bother with it?
What kept you from being intimate with another? Did you feel free to do so?
