Well Tinman, that is true, you couldn't have stopped those things from happening. My question had more to do with your comment that you were DBing again which led me to think you had stopped doing the things that were working. Maybe I'm wrong in my interpretation.

A lot of bad stuff happens to us in life, how we react or respond to those things is the measure of growth.

How were you reacting or responding?


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss