IMO, you also must protect her from the drama that's happening in your life with your ex and your daughters. Stop taking her to court and other custody hearings. Don't tell her about what's going on with it. It's too much stress for her. It's wearing her out. She is feeling that her life would be better off without this especially, since she has her own problems with an ex.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing