I could have linked it or described it better, but it was in response to the reference that taking a hard ball stand can make a man more attractive to women.
That is often stated by folks on the board, and there are so many different styles in relationships that are more transparent nowadays.
DR says you only do the After the Last Resort Technique, if you are willing to end your marriage because that's just what it might do. It is never the first or early line of defense.
