first.....there is something in the stars affecting us Sag's right now because I am losing everything in the world.I put down something and two seconds later can't find it. I couldn't see something right in front of me once. LAtely I have been taking ages leaving because I can't find stuff. But seriously outside? in the dark? finding underwear? Who knew your new life would be so FUNNY!!!!!
second....OW convo. Remember I saw that pic of STBXH and GF at at the wedding. He was standing off by himself pouting and looking uncomfortable in a social setting. I was cracking up. Because in my head he was off living a romantic comedy in the English countryside, but that picture told a different story. My DB coach said two things a) never ever make reference to him not being happy in his new relationship and b) he will never start to like social occasions I would have to learn to manage that.
So anyway all I'm saying is it doesn't matter what we hear or what it looks like to us it's what they choose. Just like with your mum in law if I were you (and I'm not so disregard if you want) I wouldn't want anyone telling me anything about the new relationship, how they interact, what was said about me, etc. it's all second hand information through the lens of someone with an agenda. Everyone has an agenda whether they admit it or not. If OW had a friend present she might tell the story of events differently. So yes don't let it change your actions and how you're living your life.
